if you are a bloke?? -well, it appears to be different rules
mind you - it really is individual in the end -- I doubt if you were 'offended' by it - equally, a lot of women aren't offended either.
the big issue I have in all of this is where people say -- it (whatever it is) was - uninvited
well,???????? how does one officially invite being pinched on the bum???
perhaps have it written on a T shirt -- 'Bum pinch, invitations welcome here'?
this, to me is the problem we have --- women go out of their way to dress to 'attract' - so do men often -
however, that is apparently not viewed as 'invitation' - so, what is?
Surely a relationship develops by people doing things ---- uninvited -- and, those things are either accepted and the behavior reinforced - or rejected, and the reaction to that behavior delineates some sort of boundary
this is where I get really non humorous with women - because often - many times in the past - when asked - I have stopped certain behaviors --- only to be told later -- 'you give up too easily'
from that, I formed the opinion that they have brought much of the trouble to their own doorsteps --
thankfully we males are naturally attractive and don't need all the crap that women buy to 'enhance' their looks - so, we can just sit back and wait until they sort their own personal crap out
